Girls let's talk (The Art of Seduction)

While women blame men for the sexual immorality we see so rampant these days, men blame women for leading them into it by their seduction. Men have been reprimanded so much; I think women should be cautioned also.
I've discovered that many good hearted women seduce men into sleeping with them without the slightest inclination.
So women, let's deal with ourselves.

It is said that while women love affection, men may love sex.
Women love to be appreciated, softly spoken to, touched, hugged, caressed or kissed. They love gifts and good treats. Why?
Because these are supposedly signs of affection. Therefore, a woman in order to get this affection may dress skimpily, throw her body on her guy, peck, kiss without suggesting she wants sex, not knowing that these things may turn men on and get them demanding it.

Truth is...
'Men think women are like men and women think men are like women', quoting a friend of mine. They both think the other party wants what they want. Women therefore should be careful that they do not seduce men while trying to gain affection from them.

Another thing we don't understand is that a man can be turned on by our seduction but not release his sexual urge on the object of that seduction. So that he didn't ask to sleep with you after you tempted him doesn't mean he didn't get that fulfilment somewhere else. He could pick a prostitute, get a girl that wants the same or masturbate to just ease himself and by that you've lured him to sin without knowing.

Point:
Perfect love is gained when self-centeredness is lost.
If the woman considers that by her skimpy clothes, bear hugs and kisses she may tempt her man to sin, and the man also doesn't want to lure the woman to sin by demanding sex, God helping, both parties will live in purity before marriage.
©Radiant~ February 2014